Erectile dysfunction: as a women!

Let the word go! The erectile dysfunction is not just a case of men. Today, this problem must be shared within the couple to cope better. How are women cope with breakdowns of their sexual partner? What are their expectations? ... Doctissimo an update.

With the evolution of society associated with treatment efficacy, it was high time to definitively lift the veil on this issue are as taboo as erectile dysfunction. And the French do not hesitate to talk about their marriage, their sexual expectations and their experiences with the erectile dysfunction.

Currently difficult to obtain reliable data on the experiences of women facing erectile dysfunction. However, a study has managed to reveal a part of the intimacy of the couple, interviewing 338 women affected by the subject.

First, rest assured you gentlemen! Please note that overall, women seem more satisfied with their love life. 55% of women (especially those under 35 years) report having sex at least once a week, 13% recognize relationships 2 to 3 times / month, 10% at least once a month. But 22% do so less often. This frequency satisfies a majority of women (62%). However, 34% of them would like to have more frequent reports, particularly those over 50 years. A proportion that undermines some ideas! Another observation: Women today are women of action. No longer hesitating to express their preferences, they say talk often with their partner. Only a handful remain silent. Of course, attitudes differ across generations. "A woman of 50 years less likely to discuss the topic that thirty" said Dr. Marie Chevret-Measson, a psychiatrist specializing in sexology.

It also notes that more and more women take the lead when they want to feel love and demanding about how their partner makes. "Again, we must qualify the words: it is sometimes difficult for a woman to take the initiative, simply because a question of desire is often the man who thinks the first ..." says Dr. Mary Chevret-Measson.

Other information, penetration "is not". The women claim as their need for caresses and sweet words.

Erectile Life is not a long quiet river ...

Overall, 83% of sexual failures mentioned by women are casual, 14% say they are frequent and only 3% define them as constants. Contrary to another popular belief, the erectile dysfunction can occur at any age. Before age 35, they are mostly casual and become more frequent with age. Two points are needed when: there is an initial "peak" in the first 5 years together and then a second between 11 and 20 years. "The first peak is due to the fact that over time diminishes the illusion of love and it sees the other as he really is. The second peak is related to life events, ie say their everyday problems, worries, work or school with the children, "said Dr. Marie Chevret-Measson.

How women do they live these erectile dysfunction? Overall, they appear comprehensive. And when there is failure, their main concern seems to be the disappointment of their partner, which shortens the carnal relationship, irritated or guilty. Most plays down considering that "it is not very serious." Others have a rather resigned attitude thinking that it is the normal evolution of sexuality. Only a few believe that the sexual failure is the manifestation of a problem man who does not watch.

For most, the "technical" aspects are of secondary importance, although one in four women is hampered by the lack of firmness of erection and its brevity. If 17% fail to reach orgasm, which annoys the most is the wound of their companion. According to statements of the women interviewed, some have a tendency to rush in "penetration" to not lose face.

Responding to him ... and for her

One thing is certain: women talk more. At their partner, but also their friends, their doctor feel guilty and less, choosing not to accept the erectile dysfunction as inevitable. However, it is necessary to emphasize that according to women interviewed, approximately 73% of men suffering from erectile dysfunction do not seek. Yet 39% of them want their partner to take treatment, believing that it would be a "nice gesture" from them. Most are motivated women aged 25 to 49 years.

The ideal treatment would be one that could be taken only when the couple needed. They are overwhelmingly to expect from treatment erections firmer and longer. In 88% of cases, women, whatever their age, waiting for the man regain confidence in him and then improve the quality of reporting.

Moral: it is far from the mechanistic view of the act of love. Faced with the disorder, the woman concerned felt first of their spouse. At the point that 42% of them face the problem are willing to insist that man consults a physician. And three out of four women, treating erectile dysfunction reestablishing their lives with the couple want to make love more often.

Recalling the effectiveness of oral therapies available today, Dr. Marie Chevret-Measson stressed however, that overly mechanical sex based on aesthetic and sexual stereotypes may exacerbate the discomfort of some couples. Far from reality, sexuality conveyed by the media do not facilitate the couple's life. For a better sex life, no need to be a superman!

 

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