The woman and the blow of failure

"This is the first time, I do not understand what's happening ...". The failure of erection is often not perceived by man reaches into his manhood. Lack of communication, aggression, man tends to withdraw into himself. But look what is the woman in this male problem?

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The erectile dysfunction is two to three million French. Despite the psychological pain they have caused, they still leave too often part of the intimate bedroom.

A national disaster
For humans, the failure of erection is a true national disaster. In our modern societies, the stereotype of the man is effective and efficient. The "failure" brings back the fear of not "being a man". Injured, some react by striving, trying very hard to get there. Others retreat into themselves. Unable to express their feelings, men keep their emotions locked.

However, these attitudes tend to aggravate the situation. To overcome the crisis, we must communicate! And in such situations, men are not very much. They do not show either a lot of imagination. Less than one third of them would encourage their partner to continue otherwise and have fun otherwise.

Yet for women, caresses and tenderness are also important elements of great sex as sacrosanct penetration.

Between catastrophism and lightness
The vast majority of women trivialize the event. For two thirds of them, "it's nothing, it will pass." They overwhelmingly adopt a positive attitude:

92% reassure their partner;
78% seek to stimulate;
60% of the incentive to continue otherwise.
Less than one third of them feel personally affected by the loss of erection. But more generally, is the male attitude which destabilizes:

44% were disturbed by his discomfort and worry about it;
14% suffer from lack of communication in these moments;
14% support evil he does not try to give them pleasure otherwise;
6% do not understand it then unable to be affectionate.
It is largely the attitude that male condition is that of his partner. They suffer and the attitude of withdrawal. "Lack of communication is really only able to suffer a woman in those times"
Stereotypes Rocco Siffredi and the Princess of Cleves
How to overcome this lack of dialogue? Although the first step is not always easy, only the restoration of true communication can overcome these difficulties. Once on the same wavelength, solutions are emerging. With a little imagination and goodwill, other means can reduce this type of "failure".

Repeated disturbances may still be problematic. Many men put their lives and sexual brackets after several failures. One aggressive behavior, the other feign indifference or recklessness. Most of them eventually will cross the door of a cabinet of sexology at the urging of their partner. It is from the fifth "failure" that women consider the problem serious and encourage their partners to consult. However, this is not the majority of cases58% of women felt that the topic is too intimate to talk to anyone about three men and 4 have never consulted for their erection problem.

With the recent discovery of several inducers of erection, the ideal fast and seems to be the drug option. Not according to the women, 68% believe that the miracle pill will not do everything! The prescription drug falls while under regular monitoring by a sexologist. The doctor may then suggest the best solution to the problem of erection. In some cases, obtaining an erection by drug could help reassure the man and help break the spiral of failure.

That consultation takes place a couple or individually, healing often passes through the active participation of the partner.

 

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