When unrest undermine male libido female

Confronting sexual failures, we can now offer solutions to men and thus take charge of their anxieties. However, we often forget that women also suffer from these difficulties men. Failures that can cause real problems for couples.

The erectile dysfunction are not exceptional: they affect 42% of men1 during their lives, nearly half the male population. And if for some, this loss of form is temporary, it can sometimes persist. In this case, studies have shown that men left to spend on average two years before seeking a solution to their problem2. What create a strong frustration for them ... but also for their partner.

When a man goes wrong, the woman also suffers
If the failure may be caused by a problem in marriage, the opposite may also occur. The man, distressed by the decline in its performance, will not perhaps that his girlfriend is involved, it too many questions about his sexual abilities. "Am I capable of the most exciting?", "Do I please him again ?"... are issues that can undermine the confidence of his partner. And this loss of insurance can lead to decreased desire, decreased libido ...
Some men will also tend to close in on themselves and refuse to talk about their troubles. However, communication is essential for the proper functioning of the couple, particularly for the woman who has a modus operandi based on dialogue, on feelings or sex. Here again, the risk is high that his desire dwindle gradually. Beware, it might be difficult to awaken beyond a certain period of abstinence.
Sometimes, the couple still succeed in pursuing a sexual life and man concentrated on his erection and the fear of losing, may be tempted to shorten the preliminary focus on penetration, causing pain and vaginal for Women . There begins the vicious circle: the fear of being wrong again in the next sexual intercourse leads to contraction of the vagina during penetration, causing further pain ... and so on. The parallels are close, therefore, more rare and more frequent.

The importance of consultation couple
So it is a fact, a sexual disorder in men may also base greatly disrupt sexuality of women affect their libido or cause physical and psychological blocks. So when to consult their GP or a sex therapist to treat his erectile dysfunction, why not decide to go to both? Thus, the therapist can benefit from the release of each member of the couple and refine his diagnosis to find the best treatment, it is a medication or psychological counseling. In all cases, it is very important that men feel supported by her partner, the woman should also feel involved. Sexuality is doing two, there is no reason for the treatment of disorders affects only one person.
The sex therapist can then propose, if necessary, exercises for the couple found the urge to make love. Women must learn to exonerate mainly to regain confidence in her, and therapy may be proposed to him that the couple found two harmonious sexual life.

 

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